EMBRACE YOUR SINGLE

OK SO THIS STARTED AS A facebook STATUS BUT WHEN THEY CUT ME OFF AT THE STAT LIMIT I HAD TO WRITE A blog LOL...Here's the status: so some people(females) may hate me for this but hey...Why is it that we always be tryna make dudes settle down and make us their girl...don't u see the word settle means they doin something they don't really wanna do just to make us happy?... Then they end up doin dumb shit like cheat cuz they didn't wanna be in a relationship in the first place but they thought that's what we wanted...smh

I JUST THINK THAT FROM WHEN WE'RE LITTLE WE WANT TO GET MARRIED AND HAVE A FAMILY(MOST LITTLE GIRLS DREAM). WE WANT THE PRETTY DRESS THE FLOWERS...PRINCE CHARMING LIKE CINDERELLA AND ALL THAT. BUT THE THING IS TIMES HAVE CHANGED PEOPLE LIVE LONGER SO THEY WANNA ACTUALLY "LIVE LONGER"(ESPECIALLY GUYS). ITS NOT NORMAL TO GET MARRIED AT 16 OR EVEN YOUNGER ANYMORE IF U WANNA GO WAAAAAY BACK. HAVING A HIGHSCHOOL SWEETHEART AND MARRYING THEM IS NOT A COMMON THING EITHER. WE'RE YOUNG TIL DEATH DO US PART IS EQUAL TO 2 LIFETIMES NOW LOL.(LIFE EXPECTANCY HAS GONE UP) I JUST FEEL YOU SHOULDN'T RUSH LIFE...THERE'S SO MUCH TIME AND SO MANY DIFFERENT THINGS TO DO AND SEE SO WHY TRY TO PLAY HOUSE AND NAG AND BITCH AT SOME NIGGA WHO MAY LOVE YOU BUT REALLY JUST WANNA DO WHAT HE DO? AND THEN ALL THAT BITCHIN AND NAGGIN GONE PUSH HIM THE OPPOSITE WAY EVEN MORE SO EITHTER WAY U CAN'T WIN...BY THE TIME U ACTUALLY GET MARRIED IF U EVA DO U'LL PROBABLY HAVE HAD MAD "UNOFFICIAL" MARRIAGES ANYWAY LMAO.

AND THERE ARE A LOT OF DUDES WHO FIGHT WIT THEMSELVES BECAUSE THEY FIND A GIRL THEY LOVE. THEY WANNA BE WITH HER BUT THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER GIRLS THAT THEY KNOW THEY NOT REALLY TRYNA PASS UP YET. THEY WANNA GO OUT, GET DRUNK, FUCK GIRLS AND DO IT ALL THE NEXT WEEKEND WIT DIFFERENT GIRLS SOMETIMES OF COURSE LOL. THEY MAY FEEL BAD BUT THEY'RE GONNA DO WHAT THEY WANNA DO REGARDLESS. THEY WIFE U CUZ THEY DON'T WANNA LOSE U BUT THEN THEY DO EVERYTHING THEY SHOULDN'T BE DOING TO CAUSE THE BITCHING AND NAGGIN AND YA'LL END UP GETTIN ON EACHOTHER NERVE ALL THE TIME AND BECOMING A BURDEN INSTEAD OF THE LOVE YA'LL SUPPOSED TO HAVE FOR EACH OTHER. DON'T GIVE A GIRL WHAT U THINK SHE WANT BY "WIFE'N" HER BECUZ SHE DON'T WANT A NIGGA TO SAY HE LOVE HER THEN MAKE HER CRY OR PISS HER OFF CUZ ALL THESE SIDE CHICKS SMILIN CUZ THEY HAD HER MAN LAST NIGHT SMH.

SO "EMBRACE YOUR SINGLE" MEANS TO ENJOY UR SINGLE LIFE WHATEVER WAY U HAVE IT...WETHER U HAVE A MAIN BOO BUT YA'LL NOT TOGETHER AND U PLAYIN THE FIELD OR U JUST PLAYIN THE FIELD...DO YOU...WE'RE YOUNG!! ENJOY UR LIFE AND WHILE UR ENJOYING UR LIFE KEEP IT FUNKY WIT WHOEVA U DEALIN WIT...LIFE WOULD BE MUCH EASIER!! TRUST ME!!

Givin you the Sweet Honesty you love~

CC

Appreciate Your Man

So today I was on twitter and there's a thing called trending topics. One of those trending topics was turn-ons. So I said a turn-on for me is a guy who texts or calls just because he was thinking about you and he really means it. I got a reply from my boy @THISISFLYNESS saying how many girls actually do this for they're man. I told him in a nutshell that I do that plus more so he suggested I write a blog to let other females know they should do the same. So...here goes nothing.

Ladies how often do you think about what you can do for your man instead of what he's doing for you? How many say thank you or show some kind of appreciation for the SIMPLE things we so desperately want? I just want to let you all know that you should APPRECIATE YOUR MAN!

Now I wanna make sure that the guys also understand that they should appreciate their women too. Do something nice for her every once in a while even if its just telling her she's beautiful.

But back to the ladies. We expect a lot from our men. We want them to pay our bills but some of us don't even wanna work and then curse him out because he broke and you want your hair done. You want him to take care of his kids but you buying new shoes, clothes and jewelry(for yourself) and can't even get him a father's day card. We want him to appreciate the fact that we are even in his life but do we appreciate the fact that he is in ours. I'm not saying that a man should not be a man and take care of his responsibilities and be good to his woman. All I'm saying is that a woman should be a good woman and do the same!

Cook for your man. Say thank you (even for the things he's supposed to do because there are some men who don't do it). Text or call him saying you were thinking of him. TREAT HIM THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED. Now if he doesn't appreciate it and do the same then drop his ass lol.

But I aim to please and will definitely be taking my own advice because I plan on keeping my boo lol.

Giving You the Sweet Honesty You Love...CC

Celebrity Wife Life

Trophy wife, Groupie, Gold Digger, Happiness, failure, fidelity, Pre-Nup, and TRUE LOVE are some of the things that may come to when thinking of women who are interested in pursuing celebrities. It is hard enough to find a man willing to be faithful...so why is it that women chase after celebrities knowing millions of beautiful women throw themselves at them all the time...being a celebrity's wife isn't easy I'm sure...will their money really fill the void of the happiness u get when your man comes home everyday as opposed to being on the road all the time. I know some people just happen to meet and really fall in love; some actually before the man becomes famous, but I don't understand those people who force it. There are some women(groupies) who follow men on the road knowing all of they're whereabouts. They try to get pregnant by them on purpose. I just don't get it. Look at what just happened with Steve McNair...his wife and kids have to deal with the fact that, because he was cheating, they will never get to see him again. It was just a thought I had and I think other females need to think first as well. Don't get me wrong if I was single and I met a celebrity who I felt was attractive and HE APPROACHED ME I would give it a chance. But it is not cool to chase around any man especially if you have to follow him around the world to get his attention. I think that's a little stalkerish...scratch that a lot stalkerish!!

~CC

He wasn't good enough for me...

So I was just sitting and thinking about past relationships and why they ended. Asking questions like what could I have done different? Is it possible that we could have worked? But then I look and see we're not together so obviously not. I began to think about how me being sensitive me, would question myself as a person and being good enough for a guy. How is it that guys can make females feel so insecure that they always wonder what they did wrong or what they could have done different. They praise you and try so hard to get you but then at some point they realize that you just aren't right for them, or they just don't want to be with you, or they aren't ready for a relationship after you've been in a relationship for more than 6 months already smh. They have this weird way of handling relationships and it always seems to be the wrong way. Well anyway I was inspired to write something. It's just a little something nothing big.

you were never good for me and I finally see that

i was just something for you to concur then step out

taking that trip to your ex-girl house

i don't know why i gave you a chance

cuz i didn't even think twice at the first glance

there was something that pulled me in

maybe god teaching me a lesson

but at the end of the day I'm happy with every blessing

You were never good for me I finally see

Breezy season poppin' got boyfriend #1, 2, maybe even 3

LMAO hope that made someone smile cuz it sure made me laugh a little

Live~Laugh~& Love ur life!! CC