Appreciate Your Man

So today I was on twitter and there's a thing called trending topics. One of those trending topics was turn-ons. So I said a turn-on for me is a guy who texts or calls just because he was thinking about you and he really means it. I got a reply from my boy @THISISFLYNESS saying how many girls actually do this for they're man. I told him in a nutshell that I do that plus more so he suggested I write a blog to let other females know they should do the same. So...here goes nothing.

Ladies how often do you think about what you can do for your man instead of what he's doing for you? How many say thank you or show some kind of appreciation for the SIMPLE things we so desperately want? I just want to let you all know that you should APPRECIATE YOUR MAN!

Now I wanna make sure that the guys also understand that they should appreciate their women too. Do something nice for her every once in a while even if its just telling her she's beautiful.

But back to the ladies. We expect a lot from our men. We want them to pay our bills but some of us don't even wanna work and then curse him out because he broke and you want your hair done. You want him to take care of his kids but you buying new shoes, clothes and jewelry(for yourself) and can't even get him a father's day card. We want him to appreciate the fact that we are even in his life but do we appreciate the fact that he is in ours. I'm not saying that a man should not be a man and take care of his responsibilities and be good to his woman. All I'm saying is that a woman should be a good woman and do the same!

Cook for your man. Say thank you (even for the things he's supposed to do because there are some men who don't do it). Text or call him saying you were thinking of him. TREAT HIM THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED. Now if he doesn't appreciate it and do the same then drop his ass lol.

But I aim to please and will definitely be taking my own advice because I plan on keeping my boo lol.

Giving You the Sweet Honesty You Love...CC

Celebrity Wife Life

Trophy wife, Groupie, Gold Digger, Happiness, failure, fidelity, Pre-Nup, and TRUE LOVE are some of the things that may come to when thinking of women who are interested in pursuing celebrities. It is hard enough to find a man willing to be faithful...so why is it that women chase after celebrities knowing millions of beautiful women throw themselves at them all the time...being a celebrity's wife isn't easy I'm sure...will their money really fill the void of the happiness u get when your man comes home everyday as opposed to being on the road all the time. I know some people just happen to meet and really fall in love; some actually before the man becomes famous, but I don't understand those people who force it. There are some women(groupies) who follow men on the road knowing all of they're whereabouts. They try to get pregnant by them on purpose. I just don't get it. Look at what just happened with Steve McNair...his wife and kids have to deal with the fact that, because he was cheating, they will never get to see him again. It was just a thought I had and I think other females need to think first as well. Don't get me wrong if I was single and I met a celebrity who I felt was attractive and HE APPROACHED ME I would give it a chance. But it is not cool to chase around any man especially if you have to follow him around the world to get his attention. I think that's a little stalkerish...scratch that a lot stalkerish!!

~CC

Twitter

So I joined twitter last year as an assignment for a class. The day I joined it was the only day I actually used it up until about 2 months or so ago. Recently I have found Twitter to be great for entertainment and a great way for artists to reach out to their fans. Brian Carlo my former and editor at the Hartford Courant told our whole class that Twitter would be big...and a year later I have to admit it is and I love it. Shouts out to Trey Songz (http://twitter.com/SongzYuuup) and Sammie (http://twitter.com/PrinceSammie) for showing me that Twitter can be wonderful. They really reach out to their fans through twitter. With links to ustream for live chatting and downloads and lets not forget the say now accounts which allow fans to call them. I say Sammie and Trey deserve Twitter awards for "Best fan outreach" lol.

Signing out it's CC the Sweety

p.s. join and follow Sammie and Trey!!

oh and I can't forget myself of course follow me @CCdaSweety on twitter (http://twitter.com/CCdaSWEETY)

Cigarette Smokers...Ewwww!!

Now I know that it's a recession and people are stressed so more people are smoking but can they not find something else to do like biting nails. I mean my mom hasn't been a smoker for over 10 years now all of a sudden she's smoking again. I didn't even remember what it was like to live in a house with a smoker but it smells and I hate it.

Today I was on my way to work and a man came and sat next to me at the bus stop and started smoking his nasty cigarette and a chick did the same thing yesterday when I was on my way to take a final exam. I mean don't people know that the air is bad enough? Don't they know second hand smoke is just as bad as first hand smoke if not worse? No t to mention that people should have the common courtesy to not smoke under a bus shelter where smoke will linger instead of in the open air. Or how about that their ashes tend to fly on people so maybe they should stay to themselves when smoking those "cancer sticks".

Well that's all. I just think that people should be more considerate of others or I'll just start being RUDE.

Signing out til next time

-CC the Realist

"Because I speak the truth."

Argument?? Who said that??

So the other day I had to ask a question. Why is that when a girl tries to talk to a guy about how either one of them feel she has to be trying to start an argument?? Now this question stems from many different situations with myself as well as experience from my female friends.

I even posted the question on my facebook and oddly enough...what a surprise the only real reasonable comments I got were from females. Of course they understood where I was coming from as a female.

I will say this though. I got a lot of "insight" from some special guys (shout out to Keith, Jack, and Omar). They explained to me that guys have to be mad sometimes for a while with out talking. Also that guys expect us to know when we are put in the highest position because of the way they treat us and who we meet(mom, dad, best friends etc.) but they're probably still gonna cheat. A lot of things they said were interesting as well as double standards.

One thing I did not like and has continued to play in my mind is that us women need to "play our role".

So my new question is...what does it mean for a woman to "play her role"?

I mean last time I checked the primitive years were over and so were the 50's and we've had the feminist movement. Women do the same jobs today that men do and sometimes do it better...so any answers??

Hated?? Admired?? I think not...

Ok so today I had a conversation with a friend about people who throw out the word hater as much if not more than how much they change their unmentionables(that's underwear). It began to sit heavy on my mind after I saw the status of one of those people when I got home. It really annoys me to see it to the point where I've thought of deleting people from my facebook and myspace because of it. They go on these rants about how much people want to be like them and hate on what they have because they don't have lives. Yet these same people seem to find more than enough time to talk about those people who supposedly are thinking about them all the time.

What I think a hater is:

Hater /hayt-er/n. someone who finds it in themselves to dislike another person for no particular reason. (hate usually stems from some type of jealousy)

Now what some people don't understand is that sometimes people just don't like a specific thing about you. That does not mean they are hating on you. What these specific people fail to realize is that they are putting so much time and energy into pointing out their so called haters that they make themselves look bad. A lot of the time they are creating these stories anyway just to make themselves feel better when people don't like them. Also if a significant amount of people don't like you...most likely it's not a case of haters but there's something wrong with YOU!

Also just because someone does something you have done doesn't mean they are trying to be like you. People try to be individuals but at some point you are going to have something in common with others. Stop trying to pretend like your the only person in the world that says a word, wears a pair of sneakers, or performs a particular action. EVERYONE DOES SOMETHING THAT SOMEONE ELSE DOES!! It's inevitable.

On that note I am going to stop here...i think I've said enough...

Until next time...giving you a taste of Sweet honesty...

~CC